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Sweet Ink

With my 21st birthday looming around the corner, I think I will be taking a little trip for some fresh ink!

Leah took this picture last time I was getting tattooed. Safe to say I was sweaty, in pain, and completely wired to the moon after a can of red bull and a bottle of coke. I am such a wimp, I mean its sore… but it’s not unbearable. Just got myself so wound up about it!
I keep a little list in my ipod touch of tattoo ideas, and a folder on my mac with some ink inspiration. I like to let the ideas flutter in and out for quite a while, and the tattoos I have so far are a result of an idea not leaving my brain for at least a good few months (well, maybe a bit longer than that) The idea that has been floating around my noggin for at least a year now, is one of these wee lovelies.
A diamond! Diamonds are the hardest known natural marerials, and a few sources I’ve found online say “Diamond tattoos can symbolize many things, and each person who incorporates a diamond into their body art will have to figure out how they want to interpret it. However, diamonds are most commonly a symbol for endurance, and an unbreakable quality that may be seen as a characteristic of the wearer’s own personality. The word diamond itself is derived from the ancient Greek term adamas meaning “invincible,”
I’ve spent so much time justifying my tattoos for other people, but I think you can grasp from whats written above one of the reasons why this tattoo would mean so much to me. I am going through a very important transition in my life right now, turning 21 and becoming a real ‘woman’, graduating from university, establishing my career, moving away from home for the first time, and I will be living with my boyfriend of almost two years who has brought so much love and light to my life. This tattoo would mark the next chapter of my life for me, and remind me of the thick skin and strength I have grown over the past few years.
I still haven’t thought about size or placement, but I would like it quite simple like the one above with maybe just a little hint of colour.
No way would I be getting anything as big as this, but tattoos like these make me really think of the placement. No more chest or arms, and I’m not too keen on my back. So where am I meant to hide this little fella?
Would it be better to keep it simple, or encorporate other text or images into the design? I love this pocket watch tattoo, I don’t normally like flowers but I think they compliment it really well. And the colours are gorgeous! Really like nostalgic designs like this.
One tattoo artist I have been admiring for a very long time, is Valerie Vargas. She is based in Frith Street Tattoo in London, and oh boy she is a lady in demand 🙁 I would need to wait like a year to get tattooed by this talented lady. I think you can see why though! She does the most beautiful portraits, each one feminine but also very strong, and each design unique! Her work is absolutely stunning, I think I need to find an artist with a really amazing portfolio before I commit to anything. I was silly enough to not do this the very first time I got tattooed.
Note: Just because the girl who you went to school and was amazing at art, who went to art school and was one of the most talented young artists I have ever seen DOES NOT mean that these skills will transfer to being a tattoo artist. I learned this the hard way when I was 18 and let her tattoo me while she was still doing her apprenticeship. Yes, the drawing she did me was lovely. But it did not turn out anything like that when it was tattooed. Uneven, bad shading and even more terrible lining. It took me over a year to do something about it. So off I went to a tattoo appointment at Forevermore in Glasgow, and a few weeks later heres what they managed to do with my pretty crappy tattoo.
Better? I think so! But still far from perfect. The owner David Pozo relined the whole thing, added a few more pretty details, new colour and shading and did the best with it he could. He also added ‘Irie’ which is Jamacian… I know that seems random but it generally just means that everythings alright (every’ting irie!) and to be very happy with where your life is at a certain moment in time. A very positive and affirmative word, Irie is also the name of my favourite cafe in one of my most favourite places in the whole world – Cornwall! Surfing memories and sunshine 🙂 I’ll certainly be heading to the coast when I retire.
So all in all, my lesson was learned. Make sure your tattoo artist is shit hot! Ask lots of questions and their opinion a million times over! Let them use their expertise along with your ideas and if you take a picture or design to them, be prepared for them to change it or tweak it or advise you on the size and placement. I am extremely glad I was a bit more clued up second time around when on my 19th birthday I got my darling swallows.
I think that would have been an epic fail if they had been messed up, don’t you agree? 🙂 (I do have a top on by the way, its just tucked down into my bra cups, promise!) I still get funny looks, asked all the time what they mean, did they hurt, why did I get them on my chest, am I a sailor, have I been in jail? The answers usually go along the lines of lots, YES, because I wanted to, no, and definately no! But seriously, I got them for me and the fact that they are not everyones cuppa doesn’t bother me in the slightest. I’m open to all opinions and questions on my tattoos 🙂 But at the end of the day, my tattoos remind me of a time in my life that I want to remember. Not once have they affected my professional practice or the way I am viewed by employers (however I admit I normally keep them covered initially until I know I can be comfortable with having them on show) Because I know some people have very extreme views on tattoos, piercings etc. 
Sometimes I think about how many old grannies and grandpas are going to have sleeves, chest pieces, neck and hand tattoos by the time I’m an old age pensioner. And when I think about it that way, I don’t think I’ll exactly be the odd one out eh? 🙂 Do what thrills you in life when youre still young, while you still can, and don’t spend your time worrying about your image or what other people think! I should really listen to my own advice more, because I do get down days and paranoid sometimes, but we all do. I just thought I would share my views with you all and hope you understand where I’m coming from 🙂 I’d love to hear your thoughts and opinions. Oh, and a big HELLO! to all of my few followers! Jeez, thats pretty overwhelming… so a big hug to you all and thank you for being so supportive and reading. I think a little thank you present will be on the horizon from me soon ♥
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  • Tillie

    Hey pretty pretty! This post made me super Happy! I have a diamond tattoo too, that I brought for myself when i got my MUM tattoo. Oh i love it!

    I love your swallow tattoos, they are so pretty! and i love love love what you wrote about your tattoos being for you, because you wanted them. Thats the same with me, ive faced a lot of negativity over become a heavily tattooed woman, and well, the truth be told, it just makes me more determined to do it. I loved looking at all your pictures you posted! and oh my goodness, I want to be tattooed by Valerie one day! Her work is the most amazing that I have seen in a long time, she is incredible. Have you seen Angelique Houtkamp? I think you would like her work too! oooh and Australian artist Mimsy! check out her myspace… http://www.myspace.com/trailertrashtattoo

    oh man. delightful. I could go on forever, but i think ill stop now.

    LOVE! xo

    May 20, 2010 at 11:22 pm Reply
  • Jessica

    all those tattoo pictures are cute. i think a tattoo is best, like you sort of said, when it's one that has specifically been on your mind for a few months or years…i think then you know that is the one!

    🙂

    i like your idea of the diamond tattoo! can't wait to see where you end up getting it and size!

    have a good night.

    May 20, 2010 at 11:49 pm Reply
  • tennillex

    i love all the tattoos you pictured here. and you are adorable.
    i totally agree with that last paragraph and i'm always thinking the same, 'when i'm a grandma every second or so other grandma will have as many tattoos as me' just because they are so popular now. i think it'll be cool when our generation is old wrinkly but still rad! 🙂

    i like that diamond means invincible. i think you should get it ♥

    May 21, 2010 at 12:05 am Reply
  • Anonymous

    How crazy is it that you had that dream about the teeth and it was all to do with growing up blah blah I think the diamond idea is fantastic! I like it just on its own in my opinion. I love your swallows they are gorgeous and i think the placement of them is awesome and you carry them well. I can't wait to get some more tattoos!

    May 21, 2010 at 6:35 am Reply
  • Winny.

    your swallows are gorgeous!
    in am in need of some new ink.
    the diamond idea is awesome.

    im new to you. 🙂

    xx

    http://arebightstarsreal.blogspot.com

    May 21, 2010 at 6:54 am Reply
  • Victoria

    I heart your tattoos! You make me want to get one but I'm too scared! 🙁

    I actually dreamt last night that I got a diamond tattooed on my finger. Does that make me a little bit psychic!?

    xx

    May 21, 2010 at 7:31 am Reply
  • Alice

    I love your tattoos, particularly the swallows, you are a very brave lady indeed, I can't imagine the pain!

    I think the diamond idea is meant to be. You clearly have researched it and it's something you really want and will cherish…almost like a real diamond 🙂

    Lovely post x

    May 21, 2010 at 8:06 am Reply
  • Kel

    Tattoos are personal to you, they take thought and each one will have memories behind it.
    I have 3 currently, two stars behind my ears (one for me and my sister) 5 stars on my left foot, one shaded in purple for me, the other 4 my grandparents, and a back tattoo I had done when I was 16, that I drew myself. I'd love to have something on my chest like you but think my dad would actually kill me then!! He calls me gypo now! 🙂
    I was annoyed when stars became "fashionable" and everyone was getting them, but mine are different and have a meaning behind them, and I wanted them.

    Love the diamond, my friend has one in red and it looks beautiful. Loved this post.

    X x

    May 21, 2010 at 8:17 am Reply
  • Make-up Addict

    I love the diamond tattoo idea, especially on the finger – would look good and have a great meaning behind it.

    I personally love the swallow tattoos and am looking to having one done on my wrist.
    I think my Dad got my into tattoos as he's covered in them 🙂 xx

    May 21, 2010 at 8:35 am Reply
  • Lucy

    LOVED this post Ayden! There are quite a few bloggers, yourself included, whose tattoos I've wanted to have a neb at. I couldn't get one, I'm an indecisive wimp, but I do appreciate a good one xx

    May 21, 2010 at 9:26 am Reply
  • Miss JPA

    http://researchtattoos.blogspot.com/

    Check that page out…. alot of inspiration…
    xx

    May 21, 2010 at 9:55 am Reply
  • Ms. Wedgie

    Great post!! I had a horrific tattoo done when I was younger and will hopefully be getting it covered later this year. Luckily it's on my thigh so people can't see how truely rubbish it is! I love Jo Harrisons work but she is in huge demand so I'm looking for alternative artists just in case I don't get lucky.

    I think it's sooooo important to think about what you want and who you want to do it. My friends have gone to places just because they're cheap, which just makes me cringe! I'd rather pay more money to have someone good do the work.
    xxx

    May 21, 2010 at 9:58 am Reply
  • LadyBugSays ...

    Fab post, love your tattoos. Definately agree about waiting to find a fab artist. I have a few(thankfully small and hidden) tattoos that I wish I had of got done by someone with better tattooing skills!

    May 21, 2010 at 10:03 am Reply
  • Panda

    OH WOW.
    Stunning.
    Panda xx
    I love tattoos so much.

    May 21, 2010 at 10:39 am Reply
  • Phoebe

    I love the ring finger diamond, i think it would be very understated.
    I've been contemplating getting one on my ribs for ages but just so scared of the bone contact!

    May 21, 2010 at 1:50 pm Reply
  • Pink Flower

    I couldn't agree more with everything you've said. I believe in just getting ink'd for how they'll look now and for the memories that they provide rather then getting turned off the idea of how they'll appear when your an old lady.

    I'd rather be an old lady that tattooed and ink'd and totally enjoyed my life then wishing i'd got them done.

    May 21, 2010 at 6:17 pm Reply
  • Lindsay

    I LOVE your attoos and I think a diamond tat would be an amazing one!! I thought of myself as a grandma with my panda tat on my wrist and it made me giggle!! 🙂 I cant wait to see what you get!! Lots of pics are a must!!! Have a great weekend pretty girl!
    xoxo,
    Lindsay

    May 21, 2010 at 9:26 pm Reply
  • Emma

    I completely agree with you about the tattoos and all the grannies and grandpas who will have them when we're older. We won't exactly be alone will we?

    I always remember seeing this grandma pick up her grandchild from school when I was about 9 or 10 and she had the biggest tattoo of a pair of tigers spread all across her back. It was pretty extreme but I couldn't help but wonder what kind of girl she was like when she got that tattoo and all of the things that she might have done. It made her really interesting!

    May 22, 2010 at 1:02 pm Reply
  • EilidhPie

    Your tattoos are lovely!

    I love the idea of having a tattoo, but my mind changes all the time so I'm afraid I'll hate it in 'x'months …

    & I love the idea of a inked granny!! lol!

    May 22, 2010 at 7:30 pm Reply
  • Joana

    hey there (: I'be been reading your blog since like a month ago or something,though I never really had the guts to post a comment but this post really made me think a lot and I particullarly loved it because I feel so much your words when talking about tattoos, I myself have 5 tattoos, 3 of them are in my right arm and are pretty visible. So, I just wanted to say thank god there are some people who do think the same way either because it's really complicated sometimes to handle with people, specially when they're 100% close minded, not to talk about the questions people do me all the time like 'why do you do that to your body' 'how many more are you going to get' or just comments like 'one day u'll regret having them done, so bad!' and stuff like that, it's kind of a struggle sometimes. So, I just wanted to let you know I love ur blog, it's like the cutest thing eveeer and i loooved the post ! Don't mind other people's thoughts or comments cause they don't have anything to do with what one decides to do with their own body, life, etc (:
    xoxox
    Joana (from portugal!)

    May 23, 2010 at 11:02 pm Reply
  • E is for Eleanor

    Amazing! I love Valerie Vargas' work! I would love something done by her.

    Also, I use a canon 350D, just a standard lens, and I'm ashamed to say I've still not mastered it! I also use ToyCamera photo editing software, you can download it free if you google it, it's amazing!

    x

    May 24, 2010 at 10:05 pm Reply
  • Sarah

    Really interesting post! I love tattoos as an artform, I've even designed a couple for people (a terrifying responsibility) but I don't think I could see myself ever getting one done. I think it's mostly the fear – it's just so permanent! But I have a fair few tattooed friends and I spend much time admiring their art. I LOVE those Valerie Vargas drawings, they're stunning.

    Have you ever visited the blog ugliesttattoos.com? Far removed from the lovely ones you posted here, but really, really funny.

    May 29, 2010 at 12:15 am Reply
  • Alecto

    i've thought about what i'm going to look like when i'm 80…but since i'm planning on being an eccentric old woman i don't think it would make any difference haha. ah well. i agree– one should always get tattoos for oneself, regardless of whether someone else does/doesn't approve. i think yours are lovely 🙂

    June 3, 2010 at 2:33 pm Reply
  • Cat

    hiyaaaaa

    have you looked at Tiny Miss Beccas work? shes basically amazing xxx

    June 12, 2010 at 5:53 pm Reply
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